Moving to Melbourne – our most frequently asked questions

I consider myself incredibly fortunate to have this blog as a space where people from around the world can get in touch with me with their questions about the emigration process and I’ve made some very good friends along the way. It’s become an absolute blessing to be able to help people facilitate their move and what’s really special is seeing them make their dreams come true when they land. It’s also given me a good handle on what it is that people want to know either before they make the decision to leave their home country or after they’ve arrived so I’ve put together a list of the most frequently asked questions I’ve had.

How did you chose a location?

Just an hours drive south east from Melbourne city is an area cushioned by crystal blue sea and filled with coastal cafes, rare restaurants and wineries known as the Mornington Peninsula. The region is also the place we chose to settle when we left Manchester and after almost two years of acclimatizing, it is starting to feel like ‘home’.

People often ask us why we chose to bring our children to live in this part of the world, probably because Australia has a similar land mass to Europe so the possibilities of where  we could have settled was immense. But having spent a year traveling Australia in 2007, both Ste and I knew that  there was nowhere else on the planet we would rather raise our children.

Before we left the UK, we would spend hours on YouTube watching little films about the Mornington Peninsula “ooo’ing” and “aaaah’ing” at drone footage over sand and surf while the kids shouted “oh can we do that?” as we watched people swim with dolphins, run on beaches and – for me – sit outside wineries enjoying the locally made beverages! It had to be somewhere really special for us to leave England behind because despite the usual complaints we had about the cold weather and dark days of winter, we were happy. It wasn’t ‘broken’ so I didn’t feel a need to ‘fix it’, which meant for me the move had to be an enhancement of the wonderful world we’d already spent our lifetimes creating.

Cue a very good friend of mine that came into my life when we lived in Hawthorn ten years ago – Dayna. Dayna told us how beautiful life on the Peninsula  part of Melbourne is and how it’s a perfect place to raise a family. We knew we wanted to live near the beach (there’s no point moving from one urban area to another, right?) but the practicalities of house prices along the coast were completely unattainable the closer to the city they were. Traveling down the coast and away from the CBD, house prices seemed to decrease slightly so it made sense to us to head that way and rent a home in an area that would be affordable for us to buy in one day. That was if we chose to stay.

How did you find a place to live when you first arrived?

We rented through Air BnB for four weeks, which allowed us just enough time (by the skin of our teeth!) to acquire a job, a long term rental and furniture to fill it with. I wouldn’t recommend shipping furniture as the thousands of pounds that it costs to do it, plus the price of renting somewhere furnished while you wait for the cargo to arrive (which takes around three months) will potentially cost more than buying it after you arrive. If you don’t want to buy brand new there is Gumtree, local Facebook pages and the usual free ads filled with everything you will need to furnish your new home when you’re here.

What about the cost of living?

I can’t speak for anywhere else in the country as I can only go off my own experiences and that’s of Melbourne, but it seems to me that the ‘Australian Dream’ consisting of coming over here to improved job prospects, smaller commutes to work leading to an improvement in family time and owning a house with a pool near the beach, is very much over. With the prices rising as quickly as they are at the current rates, becoming a home owner in this city is moving further and further from our reach and I suspect that of the majority of people who move to Melbourne now.

Jobs prospects on the Mornington Peninsula are very much dependant on your vocation, but for the majority of people, working means a commute to the city and a three hour round trip. For us this has meant Ste’s working days have increased in their duration and he no longer has as much time to spend at home as he did back in Manchester (which could be a good thing for him some days!) It’s definitely fair to say the added longevity of days for both of us plus the loss of support from family that used to allow us time-out together now and again has definitely impacted on our energy and stress levels! See for jobs advertised throughout the country.

With a growth rate of approximately 16% per year, the house prices have increased dramatically since we arrived in Melbourne in 2016. We chose to rent as we weren’t sure how long we would be staying here but if we had bought a house when we landed, it would have cost us a huge portion less than the same house would cost us to buy today. The average house price in Melbourne really differs between suburbs but the median of the city is estimated at $826,000, which is almost three times the average price of a house in Manchester.

It sounds phenomenal (and it is) but when you compare that to the average annual household income of both cities (Manchester is estimated at $41,000/£24,000 and Melbourne at $81,000/£47,000 according to the 2016 Census) you can work out for yourself if you think the higher prices here are in proportion to the higher wages. The cost of living came as a massive shock when we landed and found ourselves paying over three times the price in rent for a three bedroom home as our mortgage payments were on a house of the same dwelling size in Manchester. A great place to compare prices of houses throughout Australia is

According to website, the cost of food is also an average of 32% higher in Australia than it is in the U.K with bread averaged at 80% more costly and simple salad items such as lettuce a whopping 100% more expensive. Utilities such as internet is up 70% and the cost of your average monthly train travel ticket is up over 30% also. The price of petrol is the only thing we’ve found to be cheaper at 33% lower, which helps with the larger areas of land you have to travel to get from one place to another though the cost of buying a car is estimated at over 20% higher.

How about schooling?

We’ve found a lot of differences between the school systems in the two countries, but for us the main one with three children aged five and under when we arrived, was the age that school starts in this part of Australia. In England the age a child starts school is the September following their fourth birthday, whereas in Victoria children are expected to start school the year they turn five. The school year starts in January with the six week summer holidays encompassing Christmas allowing families to make the most of the beautiful summer sunshine and the year is divided into four terms, with no half term holidays.

Before primary school starts, kindergarten is where children can go for two years from age three, but the first year is not supplemented by the government and costs around $2,000 for five hours per week. For us this means a lot of money as we have twins to pay for so it is up to the individual to work out if it’s an affordable option for them. When a child turns four (depending on their visa type) they may be eligible for some support to help with the fees, which is around the same amount but gives them 15 hours of care. In England, all children are entitled to 570 free hours of childcare per year, which is usually taken as 15 hours a week for 38 weeks from the term after a child turns three. This is obviously a massive difference to take into account when budgeting for a move down under with young children. See here for more info.

I think I need to also mention the size of schools here. I can only speak from my own experience, but I have always found the primary schools in England to be fairly small with most activities taking place within the class room. Primary schools here in Melbourne remind me of British high schools due to their immense size (Ariana’s school has over 700 pupils) with facilities such as sport, art, science and language departments. We have been really impressed by the school we chose for our daughter and the opportunities to learn and play it has given to her but I do worry that navigating such a huge space from such a young age could be overwhelming for some kids.

There is also a real sense of ‘trust’ within the community as some schools here in Victoria have little to no security at their perimeters. Gates are wide open all day, sometimes leading onto busy highways and anyone can walk in or out without the need to ask for permission. This has been a massive shock to me and I have worried a lot about the problems this lack of protection of the kids that this system can bring but I’m learning to live with it!

Another element to the school system worth noting is the Victorian state government’s ‘No Jab No Play’ policy that came into place in 2015, which prohibits the enrollment of unvaccinated children in Victorian childcare services (not including primary or secondary schools). The extra vaccinations on top of the British schedule for a child moving to Victoria includes Chicken Pox and Hepatitis B. Failure to comply with the law will result in not only a refusal of education but to any potential financial support from the government also. For more information visit

Missing home

If you’re lucky enough to have lived a life filled with family and friends, there’s no doubt that starting a new life in a foreign country will leave you feeling a loss like grief at times. There’s so many wonderful ways to keep in touch with everyone via social media and apps, but nothing compares to having the familiarity only a family can bring particularly when raising young children. I feel really lucky to have lived all my life without experiencing emotions such as loneliness and loss until now, and that certainly is an element of emigration that seems to be sticking around.

We had the over optimistic notion that we would be able to visit England regularly after we moved to Australia, however the cost of flights for our family of five means we need to save around $800 per month to make an annual visit. You can figure out from there, even if we want to do it bi-yearly, we’d still need to save $100 per week, which just isn’t do-able at this stage in our lives. You can see from our blog posts here and here that we did make the trip in October last year and how wonderful it was to be reunited with everyone who’s made such an effort to stay in our lives since we moved away but the grueling journey and financial hit has meant that we can’t do it again for a while. Saying goodbye to people for potentially another two or three years is heartbreaking to do and it’s the same financial burden for family and friends to visit Australia too.

How easy is it to make friends?

Making friends is something that needs to take time and I would really recommend getting established in a community that makes you feel comfortable being the first step. From there, it’s easy to meet new people either through work or the kids schools and hobbies and we have been really lucky to have met some wonderful people over the past couple of years. There is so much to do here in Melbourne and everywhere we go is so child-friendly, we have had so much fun with the gorgeous families that have come into our lives and having a support network again has made us feel more at home than ever before. Most of pictures in this particular post were taken at one of our favourite places here in the Peninsula – The Briars, which is just one example of the endless activities available for families to enjoy.

So, I’ve tried to answer some of the questions I’ve been asked most regularly here and I hope it can be of some help for some of you that are considering making the move to Melbourne. I’m always happy to answer questions through here and my facebook and Instagram pages, so please feel free to send me a message if there’s anything else you’d like to know. I’ll add to this list again very soon.

If you found this post useful, you might like more from our new Emigration page (linked in the title bar above) and please share this page with anyone you think could benefit from the information.

Love from Leyla

Merry Christmas from us in Oz

Merry Christmas and a happy New Year from us in Oz! I have so much respect for anyone who genuinely writes their own blogs (and doesn’t outsource) because I can’t seem to catch a break – how does anyone do it??? In between the endless end of term parties and random festivities that swallowed up the whole of December, we somehow managed to squeeze in a bit of shopping for the kids then -BOOM – Christmas Day had arrived!

And it felt completely different to our first Christmas in Australia for me. I think last year seeing festive trees lining the streets and hearing songs about snow in the baking heat was all new and exciting and we embraced the change whole heartedly. This year, a lot of the traditions that we have maintained like giving the kids advent calendars, decorating the house on the first of the month and the Elf of the Shelf, all felt a bit forced and surreal if I’m honest.

I missed the momentum that the change in weather in England used to bring, the sparkly lights outside peoples houses and the TV ramping up it’s programming in the build up to the big day. As people discussed their arrangements with family over the holidays, it made me miss mine even more as I longed to share the kids excitement about Santa coming to town and to watch them perform in their Christmas concerts with us. No matter how much their little faces singing their hearts out on stage made me burst with pride, I still felt pretty sad inside because we weren’t sharing these special times with the people who would have applauded the loudest and celebrated the hardest.

Yes, it’s fair to say the past month has been pretty challenging for me although if you ask Ste and the kids I’m sure they’d tell you they’ve been having an amazing time – thankfully – and when I look at the pictures, it’s easy to see why.

Kian and Kaira took part in their first performance through their playgroup and we weren’t sure if they would get on the stage at all, never mind a) sing and b) behave but they did great, our beautiful little twinkling Christmas stars! We were very proud and they were over the moon to get a surprise visit from the big man himself!

Hanging the stockings on Christmas Eve and making little trees with pom poms and new ornaments was so special. We listened to music, ran around in the sunshine in the garden and felt completely relaxed, until bedtime! If you thought getting the kids to bed on Christmas Eve is hard when it’s dark- you should try it in the middle of Summer when it’s broad daylight until 9pm! They did go to sleep…eventually!

Maybe this was just before Ariana swung Kaira out of the way to get to her sack of toys? Also, does anyone else with kids have a clean TV screen? Please let me know how!

All the toys, and all the mess! If I heard “open it” once on Christmas Day, I must have heard in a thousand times!

“He really likes me doesn’t he mummy?!” Kian was relieved to find out he was on the Nice List after a year of making mischief!

Our parents watched the kids unwrap their toys on video messages during Christmas morning. I don’t think I’ll ever get used to it!

We all went down to the beach in the afternoon and the kids splashed around in the sea while I waited for the rest of my family to wake up in England so I could share the celebrations with them.

I feel so lucky that we live in such a beautiful part of the world and to have made some amazing friends here in Melbourne but despite all the sunshine it’s fair to say that our second Christmas overseas has felt more like a bit of a challenge. I’ve realised that missing friends and family back home is really highlighted during the holidays, I’m just so grateful for our beautiful kids and the fun ages they’re at to make the festivities seem magical!

Merry Christmas to you, thank you so much for stopping by our blog and keeping in touch the way so many of you do through our social media pages and here. Wishing you a healthy and happy 2018! (wow, is that right?!!)

Love from Leyla

Sunshine back in the city!

I’m not sure if it’s the warmer weather or the festive season that’s making time go by so quickly these days! It feels like only yesterday we returned from our UK trip (OK so it might actually be yesterday when I finally finished all the holiday laundry!) and now it’s December already – how did that happen?!

We were driving to the beach a couple of weeks ago when Ariana blurted out “it feels like Christmas!” Both Ste and I had to ask her to repeat herself as we weren’t sure we’d heard her right but yep, apparently 30 degree heat and swimming in the sea now signifies Santa time for our British kids.

How can that be? This is only our second Christmas in Australia and I’m still mourning our old family traditions like endless family functions, drinking mulled wine by open fires, enjoying hot roast dinners and enduring cold late night shopping and yes even the snow at this time of year all of which signified the start of the season to me but it appears our kids have totally adapted to our new country a lot quicker than us! And that should be a good thing right? Surely we want them to feel at home here in Melbourne by now so why does it make me feel a bit sad? Like a huge part of our past is disappearing and the kids might never remember our world as it was.

We have lived in Australia for almost two years and it’s safe to say these 20 or so months have been the fastest of my life. It’s like I blinked and we were permanent residents of a whole new life consisting of almost everything the opposite of anything we’ve known before. But regardless of how much I might still feel like a fish out of water at times, it’s safe to say the kids are really happy here and the more time that goes by, I think they’ll find it hard to ever leave. Although we always said this time in our lives is more of an ‘adventure’ than a permanent decision, to Ariana, Kian and Kaira Melbourne is definitely their home now and as the weather warms up, it’s easier than ever to see why they love it so much.

Life in Melbourne takes on a whole new dimension in the Spring. It really is a time of stripping back the layers we’ve accumulated over the winter (which seems to last from April until November) and getting back out into the great outdoors. For us, primarily that means dusting off the plastic paraphernalia that has been dumped stored in the garage since March and hitting the beach, which still feels completely surreal to be right here on our doorstep.

What’s not to love about kicking off their shoes (if the sand isn’t too hot) and running on soft sand that cushions every fall before cooling off in the clear blue sea? The beach is a perfect place for the kids to let off steam and find a space of their own to explore either alone or with their best friends. But then again, it’s not them that have to drag a tent for shade, a cool box filled with cold drinks and sandwiches (that almost always end up full of sand), bodyboards, snorkels, towels, buckets and spades with them! Parking spaces at the beaches on the Mornington Peninsula are often quite a walk away from the beach and we’ve learned usually involve steps!

As the kids are not yet swimming unaided, we still need to keep a close eye on them in the sea. Even though we’re really lucky here in Port Phillip Bay where there’s lots of shallow water, we’re always on guard to ensure their safety. When Ste is with me, we take it in turns to watch the kids while the other attempts to sit in the sun but it never lasts long! We seem to always have one that wants to wander off into the deep blue yonder (Kian), one who’s always cold within a minute of getting wet (Kaira) and one who is always too hot (Ariana). Needless to say, we’ve prioritised swimming lessons in the new year and are looking forward to the experience being a bit more relaxing one day!

After a couple of hours, our beach time generally will come to an end and we absolutely love visiting Main Street in Mornington, particularly at the weekend. There’s so many places to eat and drink and everywhere is really child friendly so Ste and I can ply the kids with ice cream and chips while we attempt to have an uninterrupted conversation (you know like in the days we had willing babysitters!) The kids loved watching the world (and particularly the dogs) walk by outside Publican on this particular Saturday afternoon and I loved Kian’s inventive way of using chopsticks to eat his chips. Even his big sister was impressed (which doesn’t happen often!)

I love to spend time cooking Persian food at weekend, so we headed home to indulge ourselves in our favourite cuisine just before the sun started to set on another warm day. There’s no more homely or comforting smell to me than rice freshly baked with aromatic herbs along side crisp salad, marinaded yoghurt and warmed bread. It makes me so happy to watch the kids enjoy the food I grew up eating and to find something they all relish (as any parent will know) is worth it’s weight in gold! Our favourite recipes are available to download here.

It really doesn’t feel like Christmas to us yet, which Ste keeps telling me is a good thing. He doesn’t miss the media hype that would have whipped us into a shopping frenzy by now or the family gatherings that made our lives a bit too busy at times or the cold weather that meant us scraping the ice of our cars in the dark before work in the morning. I’m sure we will create new family traditions that signify the start of the festive period to us over the years if we do choose to stay in Australia and maybe then it won’t just be the kids that say “it feels like Christmas” when we’re on the way to the beach!

Love from Leyla

Kian and Kaira are 4!

I never know where to begin when it comes to wishing a happy birthday to any of our tiny trio! The days feel so long sometimes but the years are starting to feel shorter than ever as we say goodbye to the toddler years and hello to our FOUR YEAR OLD preschoolers (I know, how did that happen?!) We heard Kian wake up with “Kaira we are 4!!” last Saturday morning and we knew that marked the start of a very special (and very, very, very busy) day!

It feels like only yesterday Ariana was the same age as the twins (the pictures are here) and we noticed a massive transition from baby to big girl. Time is flying by but not a day goes by when I don’t wonder what I did to get so lucky to have 3 beautiful constant companions!

The twins teach us more about their special bond every day with Kian asserting himself into the role of protector telling Kaira things like “remember I’m here if you need me in the night” and letting her win the games they play (because it’s a lot easier than dealing with Kaira when she’s angry, which is good practice for his married life one day) and Kaira reminding Kian how to tidy away his toys, put his shoes on before he goes outside and to “be quiet Kian!” to give her a chance to speak now and again (he honestly never stops talking). They’re both such different characters but one thing they do the same is to ensure they are always by each other’s side whether that’s while they’re sitting on a plane or simply on the sofa.

We really are so proud of all of our kids and even though we complain about the cost of their parties, we still seem to keep throwing them every time their birthdays come around! These are the pictures from Kian and Kaira’s special day, if you’d like to see.

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Ariana insisted on buying her sister this little lipgloss compact in the shape of a mobile phone. I’m not sure if it was for Kaira’s benefit or her own because of course she had to have one too!

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The kids were so lucky to get presents and cards from our friends and family back home before we came back to Melbourne and they opened each with excitement as we read them the messages from our loved ones.

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Although the twins have worked out weird and wonderful ways to antagonise each other and make my blood pressure soar whenever they feel like it, the friendship between them is extraordinary. They play together for 12 hours every day and we still have to tell them it’s time to stop playing and go to sleep at night. They are so close and we hope they always will be.

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We held the party at Steeples in Mornington as we were in England right up until a week before the big day. It was a great location to let the kids run riot while we sipped necked bubbles with our friends and someone else took care of the cooking and cleaning (WINNING!)

The twins chose a PJ Masks themed cake as it’s their favourite cartoon and it’s also our go-to show when mummy needs ‘a little sit down in peace for 5 minutes’ (or 45 minutes if we play them back to back). A cake maker from My Cake Craze (on Facebook) came up with this design for us. I would have voted for a little less food colouring if given the choice but hey, I didn’t have to make it and the fact that the kids had toxic looking toilet trips for a few days later is far less important than that.

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Face painting and a playcentre, what more could the kids want on their birthday!

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The staff at Steeples provided pass the parcel for the kids to enjoy, although the rest of the customers probably didn’t enjoy the noise they all made while the game was taking place. I don’t think they’ll be putting whistles in the parcels anymore, put it that way!

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We loved sharing the special day with the friends we’ve made here on the Mornington Peninsula and although we missed lots of people back in the UK, we are so, so blessed to have such beautiful people in our lives right here and now. The twins were so happy when we got home, opening the amazing gifts they’d been given and we were so happy to not have the aftermath of a kids party to clean up after! Everyone was a winner!

It really was a wonderful day and I really can’t believe our kids are now 6 and 4 years old. Where is the time going?!

Thank you for being there!

Love from Leyla

Settling in the sunshine

It’s safe to say we are fickle! As much as I hesitated and procrastinated getting on that flight back from the UK, the sun has put on such a wonderful display over the past few days that I’m feeling happy to be back in Melbourne!

We flew Emirates to Dubai then Quantas to Melbourne on Tuesday afternoon. I’m not going to lie, those final farewells were awful but the flights themselves were more manageable than we expected. Despite getting lost and being the last to board our connecting flight at Dubai airport due to the enormous size of the place, the kids were exceptionally good (sleeping for 10 hours!) and even though the food was AWFUL, the snacks we packed kept us going.

The jetlag has been much harder travelling against the sun and we’ve had some very disrupted nights (even starting our day at 3am on Thursday) and as much as I love the kids, reliving the exhaustion of when the twins were newborn is a phobia I can’t revisit. Thankfully last night, we all slept right through and we met the beautiful day with renewed enthusiasm for our Australian adventure.

My lovely friend Kristie invited us to join her at The Briars today as it is host to a Family Funday on the last Sunday of every month. What a lovely surpise it was to find live music, hot chips and cold beer in the grounds of the historical homestead with stunning surrounding views of the Peninsula.

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As soon as the kids got out of the car, off they ran and played in the 25 degree sunshine. I don’t know if it’s the return from England or the fact that Spring has just arrived in Melbourne but we couldn’t get over the colour of the sky today – just look at that bright blue!IMG_4420 (Large)-1

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The atmosphere was so lively, we thoroughly enjoyed feeling part of the buzzing local community.

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The food trucks at all the outdoor events we go to are so good! They can be a bit pricey ($7 for a very small glass of wine and $6 for the potato twists today) but access to the Briars is completely free and we decided the next time we go, we’ll take our own refreshments! Thank you Kristie for recommending the event and for rescuing my kids from sunburn with sunscreen! I really need to get used to packing that everywhere we go again!

While the girls made their way to the craft tent to make Halloween bats from paper plates (another free activity), Kian made the most of the frisbees, balls and skittles available on the lawn. They were all happily entertained so Ste and I kicked off our shoes with a glass of cold beer and contemplated the contrast between the Sunday afternoons we spend here and the ones spent back in Manchester. It really is a more outdoors lifestyle here in Australia and there’s no doubt that the kids absolutely revel in it.

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After a couple of hours, we made our way back down the hill to the Visitors Centre. The kids love learning about the different types of animals roaming around the enclosure and even though we missed the Emu’s, they were happy looking out for ducks and other various types of birds.

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If you haven’t guessed, the twins have had new bikes for their upcoming 4th birthday presents. We bought them yesterday and they haven’t been off them since, waking us up early shouting “we want to ride our bikes!”

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We had a lovely afternoon at The Briars then came home and after a Persian dinner, the kids were right back outside again running around with water guns in the garden while new freckles appeared on their cheeks and our worries about returning to Melbourne melted in the heat. It feels good to be back, whether that’s fickle or not!

Love from Leyla

So far but so good

I can’t even describe how I’m feeling right now. Saying goodbye to our family and friends from home is as hard 18 months after our move to Melbourne as it was the first time around. If you’ve been following our adventure here or on our Instagram stories, you’ll know we’ve done so many things since we landed back in Manchester for our holiday from dancing to Disney, sightseeing and snow-play but nothing is as important to me as the time we’ve spent just being with the people we love.

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I hope you’ve seen the film of us surprising my grandparents when we arrived 3 weeks ago (but if you haven’t, it’s here) and we’ve visited them again as much as possible since. It’s been wonderful to spend time them and with my cousins and their kids too. The kids have come alive being with their family even though the twins haven’t seen them since they were 2, but I honestly believe they know when they’re with people that love them because their laughter has been relentless and their personalities have been shining like the little stars they are.

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It’s been so lovely to visit Ste’s nanna too during this trip. The cards we get every Christmas and birthday from relatives like Betty mean the absolute world to us when we’re in Australia and we’ve found a packet of Tim Tams is a great way to say thank you!

img_0499 img_0500 img_0501 img_0498We are so grateful to my mum for letting us borrow her house for our holiday and to my sister Ciana and her husband Stuart for putting her up (or putting up with her!) They run the nicest bed and breakfast called Oak House Hotel so if you’re ever looking for a place to stay within easy reach of Manchester City Centre, check it out!IMG_0588 IMG_0593 IMG_0594 IMG_0592

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^^^Making pizzas with grandpa was a lot of fun! I love spending time with my dad, he has been such an inspiration to me to be the best version of myself all of my life and I am so proud to call him my hero. We were happy the kids got some veggies on their dinner too – winner winner, I didn’t have to cook dinner!^^^img_0534img_0487

^^^My gorgeous sisters. I am going to miss them so much!^^^


There is so much love in these pictures,  I can’t even put it into words how happy they make me! We have enjoyed so many lovely Persian dinners, traditional pub lunches, picnics in the sunshine (yes, even in the Autumn weather!) and soul warming cuddles with our parents and siblings. Every single one of the memories we’ve made has restored my faith in who we are and where we’ve come from and it’s been worth every pound we’ve spent and put on (from all the curries and fish and chips!)

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Having your makeup done by your best friend could go one of 2 ways and we have made an absolute mess of each others faces since we were 11 year old amateurs, but thankfully she now is a wonderfully talented artist who spoiled me with a makeover before a night out we had with our closest friends and if you would like to be pampered (and pick up a few tips too!) you can find Carolyne on Facebook – Makeup by Carolyne

IMG_0537 IMG_0510 IMG_0542 IMG_0474 IMG_0475 IMG_0476 FullSizeRenderMoving overseas has made me so grateful for the friends have kept in touch with me every single day even though I was hundreds of miles away. I remember someone telling me when we first moved to Melbourne that my friends would soon move on and I felt heartbroken at the thought especially about Carolyne, Jane and Dionne who have been my besties since we met at highschool 27 years ago. The shared history we have from knowing each other for most of our lives, makes me so proud that for almost 3 decades we’ve been there for each other through thick and thin. All of our friends made so much effort to spend time with us during the past few weeks, I’ll never forget the fun we’ve had and I think I’ve laughed more in these last few days than I have in the past 2 years!

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I can’t write this post without telling you about  my beautiful friend of 20 years, Laura and The Woodland Spa that she booked for us last week. Together we have graduated at university, travelled the world and have 7 children including a set of twins each so we feel connected on a level that has to be as close to soul mates as you can get. It really was a wonderful way to spend the day catching up with each other and even though we speak at least once a week when I’m in Melbourne, being back together was a breath of fresh air I will treasure forever.

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I always felt really lucky that the mum’s of Ariana’s best friends were my best friends here too and being back together again has been absolutely amazing. The kids are all a little bit taller but that literally is the only thing that’s changed when we are back together! We went back to Ariana’s old school to see everyone that means so much to us and it was like we’ve never been away as the kids came running across the playground shouting “Ariana!” much to her delight! She even had sleepovers with her best friend Isla who has been writing to her constantly since we left England and her mum Lexi and I are so proud of the relationship they’ve maintained since they were 2 years old. We love them all so much and miss them every single day.

Last night, we said goodbye again to all the friends and family that we love (I’ll share those pictures with you ASAP!) and I can honestly say, it was heartbreaking so much so that I felt my knees give way more than once. This trip has been a really important reminder of who we are and where we’re from, I just wish it had given us a clue about where we are meant to be because this journey has been as metaphorical as it has been literal. Tomorrow we leave for Melbourne again and I am hoping I can shake this sadness in the sunshine with the lovely friends we have made there too. I guess home is wherever we are together and I’m so grateful for that.

I’ll keep you posted.

Love from Leyla



We ❤️ Manchester

It was a hugely humbling experience being back at the MEN Arena last week, not only because we were back at the heart of the city we love but because of the terrible tragedy that we witnessed unfold only a few months ago.

The Manchester bomb shook me to my very core when we watched the news from our home in Melbourne and we felt a pull back to our homeland stronger than ever before and despite the half empty Arena, we were very proud to support our city and indulge the kids in a whole lot of Disney on Ice!

The kids sat through the whole two hour production and we were all amazed by the stunts the performers did on the ice! The choreography and light show was pretty amazing and and we all agreed it’s something we’re glad we did during our visit!

Another favourite activity we’ve managed to squeeze in during our holiday at home was a visit to the Chill FactorE. One of the things the kids have told us that they miss about England is the snow (they’re on their own there!) so when Ste’s parents offered to take them, we jumped at the chance not only to watch them all have fun together but to stay warm indoors while they sledged and spun in the minus four temperature!

They came spinning down the slopes in doughnuts, sledges and burrowed through tunnels in the ice until their little noses turned red and their craving for snow play was satisfied!

We had a little look around the Trafford Centre on our way home and despite my longing to accumulate some summer sale bargains, I was dragged to the water fountain, Pizza Hut and strangely enough into Lush so the kids could play with the bath bombs! I suppose I can wait for our next visit to England to grab some bargains!

Manchester has been a lot of fun for us and the kids during this break, it hasn’t helped my missing home at all!

Will share more very soon.

Love from Leyla

Well, the past two weeks has been an absolute whirlwind of energy and emotions! I’d say it feels like we haven’t stopped but that’s because we literally haven’t as we attempted to pack in 18 months worth of quality time into 21 days with our nearest and dearest. It has been so wonderful to be back in the place we called home for so long and seeing the kids with their grandparents again has made this experience absolutely worth both the dollar and distance and not just because we’ve had babysitters again!!!

Ste’s parents still live in the beautiful 18th century cottage where he grew up and its been wonderful to watch the kids run around the stone bricked gardens and create havoc amongst the original features that Brenda and Steve have so lovingly restored. As the house is now for sale, we made a film to remind the kids of the house and the fun they had during our visit and it’s here if you’d like to see it….

I haven’t heard the kids laugh so much in a long time. Seeing them being loved and admired by people other than us has done wonders for their confidence and for our peace of mind as now we know even though we have moved to the other side of the world, reunions like these aren’t as impossible as they felt at one point. I have so much to tell you about the past few weeks, I will work through these hundreds of pictures and share them with you ASAP!

Love from Leyla

We got them good!

Well, last night was the first we all slept through until 7am so it’s safe to say our jetlag has finally subsided! Those 4am starts were not great for our energy or morale and I think I’ve been in even more of a daze than usual as we’ve darted around from house to house visiting our family and friends. What a whirlwind our first few days in England have been!

It is the most wonderful feeling being in Manchester again and the love that we’ve felt in every tight squeeze we’ve been given has been recharging our batteries after running on empty for the past few months. We have been having the most amazing time in Melbourne and the kids are already talking about their plans for when we return to the beautiful Spring sunshine we left behind but the need to see our loved ones became all consuming for me so we booked our flights and here we are!

One of the highlights of the past few days has been surprising my grandparents with our visit. We hadn’t told them we were coming so the looks on their faces was priceless! My childhood would not have been the same without their love and affection and most of my happiest memories of growing up involve being in their home surrounded by my cousins, aunties, uncles and parents. I don’t think I’ll ever forget how good it felt to be back in their arms and here’s a film if you’d like to see…

I hope they’ve forgiven me for the shock! We have such a busy time ahead of us with so many people we want to see before our holiday at home is over. I am going to cherish every moment.

Can’t wait to share more with you soon!

Love from Leyla

A film of our flight!

After a very long journey that we had to keep quiet as we wanted to surprise some people with our visit, we can safely say WE ARE HOME! I’m so happy to be here and the kids are being lavished with all the love and affection that only family can bring. I made a film of our 24 hour flight, mostly taken from my Instagram stories if you’d like to see:

These next few weeks are going to be super special for us and I can’t wait to share them with you (when the jetlag subsides!)

Love from Leyla